Facebook is a tool to be used like any other, there are several sites like the one I posted which are very useful. I have a list of people who I allow to see my information, if you're not on the list you can't see the information. I share some information with family and friends but my Facebook page is not open, it's closed to everyone except those on the list. Agreed it's not for everyone, but then I don't like Marmite, it's all about choices and personal preference.